In my experience as a coach, I often see something that is crippling to people. It is the belief that failure is a bad thing and that you must never admit that you are experiencing negative feelings.
There is a big difference between acknowledging what you’re feeling so you can change it and dwelling on it beyond a reasonable time.
I LOVE this video and this line that’s in it. “One thing you’ve got to understand my friend is that you’re supposed to fail. You’re supposed to (*#!%@*# ) fail because failure is the steppingstone to success. It’s not just cliché.”