You can trick your brain into believing you are already successful if you want to.
Do you ever notice how someone’s perception of the same event has a different slant than someone else’s description about what happened ?
A few years ago I heard a discussion about the fact that eye witness accounts aren’t really accurate. They were validating that point by showing studies that compared results from 2 different groups seeing the same exact thing but giving completely different answers about the experience. When people in group A saw one type of object right before the incident they were describing, they saw a completely different thing about the incident than test group B.
This video explains why that is…
So why not spend more time feeding information to your brain about the way you’d like things to be rather than on what you don’t like about life? What you think and believe has a way of becoming reality to you. Perception truly is reality.