Success Coaching Insight for Attaining Goals
Here is a success coaching thought to consider to help you feel confident that the things you desire to change about your life are largely under your control. You just have to make the choice to pay attention to things a little more each day. That’s not a hard thing to do.
I’m writing this to share my response to a comment that was made to me from someone who said TFS doesn’t work for him.
Success Coaching Tip
When I read the words “TFS doesn’t work for me,” it didn’t even compute in my brain that it doesn’t work and here is why…
That statement doesn’t make sense when you understand the power of your thoughts and energy.
The fact that your TFS (thoughts, feelings, seeing) is active all the time means you can’t attribute your results to the idea that it doesn’t work! What the person really means is that he hasn’t taken control of his TFS.
TFS, if you aren’t familiar with my success coaching programs, is the framework that I work from with clients AND myself. It is a simple formula for working with goals and finding the subconscious blocks. That simple formula popped into my mind one day and made perfect sense.
That insight came to me after many years of searching for a way to understand why things came so easily sometimes and other times not at all. It became an unbelievably simple formula for finding the problem area when goals weren’t manifesting.
I had asked the questions many times but this particular day I saw 3 triangles coming together to become 1, in a symbolic way that represented the alignment of 3 areas all focused on and involved in the creation of or manifestation of or attainment of a goal or heart’s desire. The sum total of those areas equals the energy that shows up and becomes part of your reality.
- T-thoughts/self-talk/conversations with others
- F-feelings/emotions that are felt about the situation/goal
- S-sight/what is seen internally and externally with regard to the situation/goal
I worked for several years to compile information and science that helped explain why things work as they do and to show the steps I take to create successful outcomes. That work became my audio coaching program Triangle Formula for Success (TFS).
So my response to someone who thinks it doesn’t work is this:
You are always thinking thoughts, seeing images in your mind and feeling something about them. The issue may be that you aren’t shifting your TFS onto a new track. Without realizing it, you may subconsciously be running on the old track that has formed a rut from years of steady use. And that is what my Triangle Formula for Success audio program is all about-the techniques that must be practiced in order to create something new when it isn’t coming naturally. I really put a lot of effort into my TFS work and sometimes it takes me a year of daily effort to start thinking and feeling differently about something that is a part of my life.
But very consistently, it seems magical the way things change as soon as I create it internally by consciously working with my TFS. Some things come easily, some things require real dedication to the work, but it is empowering to know there is something that can always be done that is under your control.
You make the decision every day to flow with things as they are or “slam your fist down” with determination and change them. It is a question of how important it is to you to change. And it is the results I have seen in my own life that drive me to share the practical every day application of this formula through my success coaching programs.
Topic: Success Coaching